Ill-behaved women
Every significant act of protest has its iconic image: the barricades in Paris in the 1960s, the Berlin Wall in the ’80s, the roadside war-protest camps leading to George W. Bush’s Texas home in recent years. Today, two images from Egypt linger in my mind.
One is a woman my mother's age placing a very
determined kiss on a
young soldier's cheek. (My teenage daughter noted that he doesn't look
thrilled.)
The other is
an eight-year-old girl named JuJu. Asked, presumably by her father, to give
some advice to Egyptian
president Hosni Mubarak, Juju speaks about counting the cost of his
reign. Then she hops off the couch to approach the camera, her eyes lit with
mischief and her hand held to her mouth, telling a secret: "And by the way,
some of your police officers are removing their jackets, and they're joining
the people." Here's the video:
Staid
historian Laurel Thatcher Ulrich coined a phrase that also went
viral: "Well-behaved women seldom make history." Ulrich was writing about
Puritan women, but her words rang through my head this weekend. My daughters
have read Kay Thompson's Eloise books, but I shush them if they say, "Oh my Lord." I tell
them to keep their shirts tucked in and not to run in church. I am rethinking
these things.
Mubarak has been an expensive American ally. One-third of all
U.S. foreign aid is allotted to Israel and Egypt--and more than half of this
aid is military. This may be about to change. Friends have been posting Al-Jazeera and Guardian news
clips on Facebook pages, along with brave tweets (what strange phrases we now
use) from inside as thousands reject this "aid."
Stanley
Hauerwas put it this way: up to this point, the classic image of Egypt has been
a road with a man and donkey on one side and a giant military complex with
American-bought fighter jets on the other. Relative poverty is juxtaposed with
the threat of extravagant violence.
However, the undemocratic subjugation this "aid" enables is also under attack, and with it the classic image of Egyptian women. Garance Franke-Ruta points out that we ought to see the "powerful Twitter images and Facebook albums of women on the frontlines of the Egyptian uprising . . . for the truly exceptional instances they are."
That
grandmother's kiss is nonsensical. Juju's dad was, by local standards,
asking his daughter a crazy question--advice from a girl-child to a president?
One sure way to control a population is to control the women. After all, if even the girls hit
the streets, there
could be total chaos--the powers and principalities might topple! To paraphrase
the Kinks, if girls will be boys and boys will be girls, we'll have a mixed-up,
muddled-up, shook-up world.
I propose
that we Christians teach our daughters some holy mischief. Let's look at the
pictures, watch Juju and teach our girls how to be brave.